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Carolyn Cole, LCPC, LMFT, NCC

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    Mindfulness Rituals for the New Year

    It’s December 31.  It can be common to think about how to celebrate the coming of the new year at midnight or creating new years resolutions to… Read more “Mindfulness Rituals for the New Year”

    December 31, 2018 by Carolyn Cole, LCPC, LMFT, NCC

    Willpower in Achieving Your Dreams

    The new year has arrived!  People generally either tend to look at this as a fresh start or just another day.  However you view it, what goals… Read more “Willpower in Achieving Your Dreams”

    January 1, 2018 by Carolyn Cole, LCPC, LMFT, NCC

    The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we have…

    I once read a quote that said the most important relationship we have in our lives is with ourselves.  That really stood out to me as I… Read more “The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we have…”

    August 1, 2015September 5, 2021 by Carolyn Cole, LCPC, LMFT, NCC

    If you’re not taking risks, you’re not growing…

    I recently went to a presentation on personal growth, in which a couple of concepts stood out to me.  The first concept, which will be addressed in… Read more “If you’re not taking risks, you’re not growing…”

    February 21, 2015September 5, 2021 by Carolyn Cole, LCPC, LMFT, NCC

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    Sometimes the reactions we judge most harshly in ourselves make sense when viewed through the lens of the nervous system. Sometimes it’s not just what happened that shapes our experience—it’s the meaning we attach to what happened. Sometimes the relationship isn’t the only thing influencing the relationship. Understanding your attachment style - and your partner’s - can be a literal game changer in relationships. Perspective shifts don’t always happen because the situation changes. Sometimes they happen because you do. ❤️ Listening is often talked about as a communication skill, but it is also a relational experience. Many people are used to conversations where someone quickly gives advice, changes the subject, interrupts, reassures, problem solves, or prepares a response. And while those responses are often well intentioned, sometimes what a person needs first is to feel heard, emotionally understood, and genuinely present with. Change and accomplishment doesn’t start with motivation. It starts with one small, repeated choice that begins to shift what you believe is possible. Not everything that feels like “passion” is actually supportive. And not everything that feels “calm” is true emotional safety. Self-discovery isn’t about becoming someone new.

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